This is 40

By a show of hands, tell me, who has seen this movie? I kid.

Well, I'll tell you, anyone 40+ who has and I mean anyone will laugh and exclaim "that is MY life". 

Funny enough. 

I think it's because it is everyone's life.

Eventually.

In this world of blogging, fashion + beauty at 40+ has become somewhat of the new black.

Sure, the twenty-somethings are fabulous and provide endless inspiration but honestly, just about anything I put on at 20ish looked halfway decent on me just because I was well, 20ish.

But at 40? Well, that's an entirely different story.

You know yourself better.

Definitely know your body better.

And most importantly, know how to dress better so that your body looks better.

It's all an illusion really.

But the women I will be introducing you to over the next few weeks make it look so easy.

Today, I bring you This is 40.
And in the spirit of fair play, I've started with yours truly.

 

1. How has your style evolved since getting older?
I've always liked to be on trend and have always radiated toward classic looks with a bit of an edge. Read : cocktail dress with motorcycle jacket. Really, the only thing that's changed is that I can now afford to spend a little more on items I plan to keep in my closet for the long haul. I still enjoy a good Forever XXI shop. The thrill of the hunt and a good deal, always drive me. 

2. Anything you would have worn when you were younger but absolutely wouldn't dream of wearing now?
Super short skirts/dresses or shorts would top my list. Although, I still wear denim cut-offs, I look for a slightly longer length. Dr. Martens would also be on my list. Still love them on the younger set!

3. Any looks you regret?
Absolutely! I went through a phase where I needed to have my hair as light as humanly possible. It was ridiculously unhealthy so I ended up wearing it super short for many years. Madonna from her Papa Don't Preach video was my inspiration. Marilyn Monroe was my idol. 
Also, red coloured opaque tights under skirts. And then feeling the need to match my lipstick to them. 

4. What do you know now that you wish you had known then?
That natural ALWAYS looks better. That when you over pluck your eyebrows, they are ridiculously hard to ever grow back in. So many of the items I would donate or give away? Totally on trend now. Wish I had kept them! 

5. Who is your favourite 40+ inspiration and why?
I have so many! Most of the women whose closets I covet {Gwyneth, Gwen, Cate} are all over 40. 
And, I still love Madge. 

6. Best advice you would give to your younger self.
Your mother was usually right. 

7. Anything else you want to share.
I remember terribly dreading my 30th birthday. I didn't want to celebrate, really just wanted to pretend it wasn't happening. Now, at almost 44, I realize what is truly important. Botox. I'm kidding! 
I read a quote once that read something along the lines of "aging is a privilege and not a right". I get that now. And I'm up for it.
With or without the botox. 

Hope you'll join me here for the next few weeks.
Grab a button + join the fun won't you? 

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